Selfishness in general polite society is such an ugly word. Describe someone as selfish and a whole host of thoughts come to mind. It’s associated with unpleasantness, a distinctly social no no, to the point if a few agree someone … Continued
In the world of BDSM, or femdom, or any type of female led relationship there is the understood power dynamic. You have a mistress and a sub, at least in our case, and mistress has outright authority to deal with … Continued
If you are new to the concept of being more in control, then there can often be a lot of frightening thoughts that run through your head. A google search can scare you, and there are images everywhere of extremely … Continued
Being a mistress comes with responsibilities. Whether you are in a true female led relationship as a lifestyle choice, or your man has just asked you to be a bit more assertive. Maybe he has just asked you to try … Continued
If you’ve just been asked if you’d mind pegging your partner then there are probably hundreds of thoughts and questions running through your head. Pegging, in theory, is a simple sexual affair. A female places a strapon harness on herself … Continued
When taking charge in a relationship, whether you instigate it or not comes with many factors, nuances, and altered power exchanges. Men, by nature, are quite sexual creatures, they have a motivation for sex. However, by placing themselves voluntarily under … Continued
What is surprising to learn for many is how many men have some form of ‘dominant woman’ fantasy in their desires. For some, it takes the form of visiting a ‘mistress’, and for others, it’s preferred to be within the … Continued
For many women, not just those in consensual D/S relationships, the act of intercourse can be more psychologically stimulating than physically stimulating. For men, penetration can be the ‘end goal’ if you like, but women are much more aroused by … Continued
If you are new to the whole BDSM scene, and find yourself having been asked to be a domme, then you no doubt have an absolute ton of questions and apprehensions. What do I do? How do I do it? … Continued
OK, so your significant other has expressed a desire to let you take charge. He mentioned words that you see as some dark underworld, and rushed off to the internet to find what all the stuff is about. The first … Continued
Trying to talk to your partner about the benefits of a female led relationship can be hard. Use this open letter to help or to prompt constructive dialogue.
