Think of BDSM and most people conjure up an image of a leather clad vixen laughing maniacally as she whips and subjugates a restrained submissive male. She verbally denigrates him before performing some tortuous sexual act. Unsurprisingly this isn’t real … Continued
If you are beginning a journey into gentle femdom or are thinking about a female led relationship, then there is a new world in front of you. The typical literature and adult video sites can give a very warped and … Continued
The BDSM community has many devotees, and within it there are all types of dominant and submissives. If you can think of it, someone probably practices it. There’s plenty of variety, levels of dominance and nuance though. Mainstream media would … Continued
Acting like a dominant female can take many forms and span a wide variety of activities. Chores, tasks, and personal errands are all on the cards when you enter into any type of female led relationship. The art of dominance … Continued
Most people might not argue too loudly that a woman needs to be pampered every now and again. A mistress however, can demand it. Equal rights, empowerment and female dignity, are just phrases for those not in a female led … Continued
Within a female led relationship there is often deep satisfaction for both parties. For a submissive male, the relinquishing of decision and authority can be extremely stress relieving, and ironically make him a more effective leader professionally. Deep down, he … Continued
Being a mistress or domme doesn’t often come with boundaries. Your sub doesn’t reach the threshold of the bathroom and declare himself in a ‘female led relationship exclusion zone’ if he wants to get away. The domme and sub dynamic … Continued
In any female led relationship the controlling dominant female has many things to juggle around. Most likely the running of the household, and making sure the relationship runs smoothly. While there is also the work of correcting bad male behavior … Continued
In so many ways mistress’ pussy is different from that of a woman not having power over a male. Not physically of course, but in all other respects. In any normal relationship a man can ignore or just be bad … Continued
Selfishness in general polite society is such an ugly word. Describe someone as selfish and a whole host of thoughts come to mind. It’s associated with unpleasantness, a distinctly social no no, to the point if a few agree someone … Continued
Trying to talk to your partner about the benefits of a female led relationship can be hard. Use this open letter to help or to prompt constructive dialogue.
