For many women, not just those in consensual D/S relationships, the act of intercourse can be more psychologically stimulating than physically stimulating. For men, penetration can be the ‘end goal’ if you like, but women are much more aroused by … Continued
If you are new to the whole BDSM scene, and find yourself having been asked to be a domme, then you no doubt have an absolute ton of questions and apprehensions. What do I do? How do I do it? … Continued
If you are looking at stepping into a BDSM lifestyle, whether as a private matter or you want to attend meetings, understanding how to motivate a slave is essential. With a submissive you need to create goals, in order so … Continued
OK, so your man has approached you and asked if you could be a bit more dominant. He has alluded or directly asked for you to be the head of the household, and take control of certain aspects of his … Continued
As a domme you will probably dish out plenty of rewards and punishments, however there is another potential arsenal up your sleeve. That of humiliation. Depending Upon your subs disposition it can also be a little bit of a punishment, … Continued
OK, so your significant other has expressed a desire to let you take charge. He mentioned words that you see as some dark underworld, and rushed off to the internet to find what all the stuff is about. The first … Continued
Having an idea of the roleplay can be critical to making the domme and sub dynamic work. Working out what you both intend to get from it is a major part of why it works. The sub may enjoy the … Continued
When talking in the BDSM community so much of it focuses on power exchanges, and punishments that are feted out if a dom or domme is displeased. However, this is not the only reason to like a power exchange dynamic … Continued
This is more common than you think and many can take this to the 24/7 level. Decide if that’s for you early, but most are happy within a roleplay element. Most men have to come out to their partner about … Continued
There are many reasons to enjoy being a domme, not least of which is your natural authority around your sub. You have the ability to dish out rewards, punishments of whichever severity you desire. Kinks though for a domme relationship … Continued
Trying to talk to your partner about the benefits of a female led relationship can be hard. Use this open letter to help or to prompt constructive dialogue.
