Selfishness in general polite society is such an ugly word. Describe someone as selfish and a whole host of thoughts come to mind. It’s associated with unpleasantness, a distinctly social no no, to the point if a few agree someone … Continued
This is a true story. I know this because it’s mine. I thought I’d share it, as it is my journey into how I discovered femdom, what attracted me to it and how the situation developed. I don’t offer this … Continued
In the world of BDSM, or femdom, or any type of female led relationship there is the understood power dynamic. You have a mistress and a sub, at least in our case, and mistress has outright authority to deal with … Continued
If you are new to the concept of being more in control, then there can often be a lot of frightening thoughts that run through your head. A google search can scare you, and there are images everywhere of extremely … Continued
Being a mistress comes with responsibilities. Whether you are in a true female led relationship as a lifestyle choice, or your man has just asked you to be a bit more assertive. Maybe he has just asked you to try … Continued
If you’ve just been asked if you’d mind pegging your partner then there are probably hundreds of thoughts and questions running through your head. Pegging, in theory, is a simple sexual affair. A female places a strapon harness on herself … Continued
When taking charge in a relationship, whether you instigate it or not comes with many factors, nuances, and altered power exchanges. Men, by nature, are quite sexual creatures, they have a motivation for sex. However, by placing themselves voluntarily under … Continued
What is surprising to learn for many is how many men have some form of ‘dominant woman’ fantasy in their desires. For some, it takes the form of visiting a ‘mistress’, and for others, it’s preferred to be within the … Continued
For many women, not just those in consensual D/S relationships, the act of intercourse can be more psychologically stimulating than physically stimulating. For men, penetration can be the ‘end goal’ if you like, but women are much more aroused by … Continued
If you are new to the whole BDSM scene, and find yourself having been asked to be a domme, then you no doubt have an absolute ton of questions and apprehensions. What do I do? How do I do it? … Continued
Trying to talk to your partner about the benefits of a female led relationship can be hard. Use this open letter to help or to prompt constructive dialogue.
