What is surprising to learn for many is how many men have some form of ‘dominant woman’ fantasy in their desires. For some, it takes the form of visiting a ‘mistress’, and for others, it’s preferred to be within the … Continued
For many women, not just those in consensual D/S relationships, the act of intercourse can be more psychologically stimulating than physically stimulating. For men, penetration can be the ‘end goal’ if you like, but women are much more aroused by … Continued
If you are new to the whole BDSM scene, and find yourself having been asked to be a domme, then you no doubt have an absolute ton of questions and apprehensions. What do I do? How do I do it? … Continued
If you are looking at stepping into a BDSM lifestyle, whether as a private matter or you want to attend meetings, understanding how to motivate a slave is essential. With a submissive you need to create goals, in order so … Continued
OK, so your man has approached you and asked if you could be a bit more dominant. He has alluded or directly asked for you to be the head of the household, and take control of certain aspects of his … Continued
As a domme you will probably dish out plenty of rewards and punishments, however there is another potential arsenal up your sleeve. That of humiliation. Depending Upon your subs disposition it can also be a little bit of a punishment, … Continued
When talking in the BDSM community so much of it focuses on power exchanges, and punishments that are feted out if a dom or domme is displeased. However, this is not the only reason to like a power exchange dynamic … Continued
There are many reasons to enjoy being a domme, not least of which is your natural authority around your sub. You have the ability to dish out rewards, punishments of whichever severity you desire. Kinks though for a domme relationship … Continued
Although it can seem strange this can be quite a fun way to play out the domme and sub dynamic. Make money from a sub? Well, yes, but it’s not designed as replacement for a salary activity, unless he really … Continued
Trying to talk to your partner about the benefits of a female led relationship can be hard. Use this open letter to help or to prompt constructive dialogue.
