Within a female led relationship there is often deep satisfaction for both parties. For a submissive male, the relinquishing of decision and authority can be extremely stress relieving, and ironically make him a more effective leader professionally. Deep down, he … Continued
Being a mistress or domme doesn’t often come with boundaries. Your sub doesn’t reach the threshold of the bathroom and declare himself in a ‘female led relationship exclusion zone’ if he wants to get away. The domme and sub dynamic … Continued
In so many ways mistress’ pussy is different from that of a woman not having power over a male. Not physically of course, but in all other respects. In any normal relationship a man can ignore or just be bad … Continued
Many women like their men to take charge in the bedroom, it certainly isn’t an uncommon desire. If you have been asked to be a bit more dominant, then this seems to be a contradiction. But this begs an interesting … Continued
Selfishness in general polite society is such an ugly word. Describe someone as selfish and a whole host of thoughts come to mind. It’s associated with unpleasantness, a distinctly social no no, to the point if a few agree someone … Continued
This is a true story. I know this because it’s mine. I thought I’d share it, as it is my journey into how I discovered femdom, what attracted me to it and how the situation developed. I don’t offer this … Continued
In the world of BDSM, or femdom, or any type of female led relationship there is the understood power dynamic. You have a mistress and a sub, at least in our case, and mistress has outright authority to deal with … Continued
If you are new to the concept of being more in control, then there can often be a lot of frightening thoughts that run through your head. A google search can scare you, and there are images everywhere of extremely … Continued
Being a mistress comes with responsibilities. Whether you are in a true female led relationship as a lifestyle choice, or your man has just asked you to be a bit more assertive. Maybe he has just asked you to try … Continued
When taking charge in a relationship, whether you instigate it or not comes with many factors, nuances, and altered power exchanges. Men, by nature, are quite sexual creatures, they have a motivation for sex. However, by placing themselves voluntarily under … Continued
Trying to talk to your partner about the benefits of a female led relationship can be hard. Use this open letter to help or to prompt constructive dialogue.
