Do Women Like Men Who Want To Become Sissy Maids?

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The vast majority of human partnerships are male and female.

Each sex has an evolutionary biology that makes them attractive to the other.

Women have known traits, as do males.

There is the odd scenario where a female with male characteristics is looked upon favorably, wheras society with effeminate males tends to be harsher.

A tomboy is cool and adventurous.

Yet there are many men who are attracted to the idea of playing roles of the female without losing their masculinity.

There’s nothing at all wrong with that, however, there comes the worry that with a female will naturally see the male as less attractive.

Is this true though, do women like men who want to become sissy maids?

Women are very capable of being attracted to men who want to be sissy maids. Not in all cases because it depends upon the individual female. A long term partner may be quite accepting depending upon proclivities and whether it’s a kink or a lifestyle choice.

Different men will have different wishes with respect to being a sissy maid.

Some men want to as an act of escapism, while some want it more as a lifestyle thing.

The reciprocating female might be quite tolerant of both views, or favor one more than the other.

a sissy maid in front of female

Are Sissy Maids Attractive To Women

To start with, there’s no rule that says they wouldn’t be.

If being a sissy maid is a calling then a female can be quite happy with that.

The fact is, some women will be perfectly OK with it, while others will find it a fun kink, while yet still more will be tolerant of more as a lifestyle choice.

Some women will not like it at all, but be quite happy with you doing it occasionally to keep the relationship harmonius.

It all depends on the stance taken by women, of which it’s a pretty varied specrum.

Plenty of women are fine with male sissy maids, while other’s aren’t.

a sissy maid next to mistress

Will My Partner Think Less Of Me If I Admit I Want To Be A Sissy

There’s no clear answer to this.

Some women might less of their men, but the vast majority may not.

There are plenty of blogs where women are asking whether they can force their men to be a sissy maid when he dopesn’t want to.

There’s clearly some women out there who are attracted to the idea.

Women are quite capable of seeing the difference between a fun kink and the masuculinity of a male.

Many women are also attracted to the feeling of power and control over their male partners once the male is sissified.

Sissification is a power dynamic and some women enjoy the exchange if it’s new to them.

a sissy maid kneels next to mistress

Why Women Might Like A Sissy Maid Partner

There are definitely dominant women out there who know they like the sissification of theor male counterparts.

Women will probably be more understanding if there is a prior relationship.

Many women find the idea exciting to be dominant and see the sissification of their partners as part of that dynamic.

Many women have a kinky streak and would be quite accepting of it in play.

Most women might not be totally into their men in female attire but if they are intersted in the dominant / submissive dynamic are on board with the sissification of their subs.

Why Some Women May Not Want A Sissy Maid Partner

Society has prodiced women who respond to the traits of masculine men.

Any action or fetish that takes away from this masculinity can be looked upon as less favorably.

It might be more common for women to accept a man wanting to be a sissy maid as part of a power dynamic rather than a life choice.

Some women just aren’t into it, they are visually guided, and prefer men to more masculine.


A male wanting to become a sissy maid could well find a good number of women sympathetic and understanding of the behaviour.

Some women are not into the scene, buth equally there are others who like the dominant play as the dynamic.

Whether it’s escapism or more of a thorough lifestyle choice may well be a determinent factor.

Some women find the idea kinky but want a male partner most of the time.

The idea that all women find the idea abhorent is wrong.

Finding the ideal women might be a challenge but many women accept men who like to be a sissy maid and thoroughly play along into the fantasy.

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9 Responses

  1. Willow

    I am a married crossdresser. We have been together for about 30 years and have been married for 27 years. Although she knows I crossdress, I’m under the impression that she doesn’t care for it. I love my wife dearly but I would absolutely love for her to take control of my feminine crossdressing side. My greatest fantasy is for her to have me made over to look more feminine and insist that I mostly wear my French maid outfit and keep the house spotless for her. I would be willing to do much more for her comfort and \or entertainment. Such as massages or anything she feels that she wants from me. I feel that I would be more than just her maid because if she ever had the idea to take on a boyfriend I would most likely not get in her way. I also believe that if she told me to suck a cock while I’m in female mode I would most likely jump at the chance to drop to my knees and open my mouth.

    • Education

      Sound like a cool guy to be able to do that with a little more than the cuckoldress has been doing well as well with the process of getting a new one
      C is not a big problem but I am very thankful 🙏 I am not even going to get to see the world 😅

  2. ccwaits

    I am a straight man who is attracted to women sexually but also love for her to, in private, strip me completely naked and dress me in different outfits, lingerie, panties, dresses, ect. And punish me with femdom bdsm, clothes pinns and some sounding. Like i said i am straight, like women. Why is a discreet woman like that so hard to find.
    Any answere

    • donald, now Darla

      I was 44, divorced twice. I met Angela, 34 & we went to dinner. She ordered for both of us & when I wanted as glass of wine she said no. I tried to kiss her good night & she slapped my face & said you get to do that when I say you can. I asked when we could see each other again & she said I’ll call you. Right from the beginning she was taking total control. On our next date she had me come to her home. Thats when my life totally changed. When I arrived she looked at me & said get those awful clothes off. You come here you dress the way I want you to be dressed. Out came a maids dress. I started to object & she said in a very firm voice, you can leave. I said no please & she said hen do what you’re told. I said yes. She said you address me as Mistress. She ordered me to kneel & I said yes Mistress. I got naked & put on the panties & maids uniform. I agreed to marry her & become her wife.

  3. maid angela

    Unlike a lot of sissy maids I do not want to look like a woman when I am dressed in my maid uniform. I wish to like like a man who has to wear a maid uniform and obey instructions from a lady. One of my fantasys is for the the lady I am working to invite some guests in for coffee and have me serve the coffee and then stand in a corner waiting for any further orders while they chat and ignore me. It has happened once when the guests were invited for dinner which I served however this time my mistress made me use make up so I looked more feminine, I have also served at a garden party and the guests more or less ignored me unless the wanted something. On both occasions it was just wonderful.

  4. Steve /Stephanie

    As a straight man I like a woman to tell me or have me dress in outfits as much as she can ,with a little degrading as well . Mainly I prefer this done in private ,just our little secret adventure. Telling me to wear stuff is a turn on for me.

  5. Don, aka Darla

    My situation was different! I was on a first date with a woman I had met two weeks earlier. We had dinner, she ordered for me. I liked her & in the car I leaned oiver & kissed her and she slapped my face hard & said you kiss me when I say you can kiss me! Wow!
    Our second date was at her place. I brought the meat & she told me to cook. I’m used to cooking so I did. Then she said clean up the kitchen & I did it. I was a bit taken aback by the way she was bossing me but I just fell in line & did what she said.
    Then things got very interesting. She was in her chair & said come here. Stand there. Now take your pants down so I can see what you have. I was embarrassed and slow to react but I did it. She looked at my limp penis and said oh, my, you sure have not been treated very well. She said ok you can put your pants back on. Now my dick started to get hard & she said get that thing mack in your pants.
    On our 3rd date at her place she made me undress & put me in a maids dress & said to me time to clean my apartment. And I went to work. That fast she had turned me from a straight man to a sissy maid.

  6. Beronica Sissy

    I wear women’s underwear but really want to be dressed as a sissy maid and occasionally be my wife’s maid or girlfriend and go shopping where she treats me like a princess and makes my look like a real girl. I want my 42B chest to grow to full DDs. Then she tells me I need to start living full time as her girlfriend

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