The sissy maid is a familiar part of the femdom scene.
The true sissy maid is not just about being in womens attire, namely that of a maid.
Being a sissy maid is an attitude.
Many might call it a compulsion or a calling.
But what does it ultimately mean to be a sissy maid.
What characteristics are important for the service of the dominant female.
As alluded to, it’s not simply looks but skills and attitude.
Let’s run through a comprehensive list
The Sissy Maid Must Be Obedient
The 1st true duty of a sissy maid is to be both obedient and compliant.
The sissy maid should endeavor to comply with the requests of her mistress to the best of her ability.
Tasks she is given are an opportunity to show her obedience, and the effort she puts in is a barometer of her respect to her mistress.
The sissy maid must not have a ‘that will do’ attitude to tasks.
Her mistress will desire quality from the work, and poor quality work is synonymous with not being obedient.
The wishes of her mistress come before thoughts of her own, and her true duty is to understand what is being asked of her, and put her best effort into a task.
Mediocrity is not acceptable, and suppresses her own desires in order to be compliant with what is expected of her.
The Sissy Maid Must Be Respectful
A sissy maid has superior.
The mistress takes care of her, so she must always be respectful.
Not being compliant and respectful is tantamount to thinking you can approach a mistress as an equal.
A sissy maid is in the employ of mistress so being respectful should be both to mistress and guests invited to the house.
The sissy maid should find the language of respect chosen for her and use appropriately.
She should dress in accordance with that respect, and address her mistress with reverence.
A sissy maid should never speak over her mistress, elevate her volume in frustration, or talk back.
The mistress must be addressed appropriately, and be both greeted with courtesy and have her wishes performed in a timely manner.
The respect must be total and pervasive, and when not in the presence of the mistress she must not be referred to with anything less than respect.
The mistress must have her needs met, and part of that respect is anticipating what a mistress may need.
The Sissy Maid Must Show Good Grooming And Grace
On the back of showing respect is a sissy maid showing she possesses polite behavior and elegance.
A sissy maid is considered to be of poor quality if she does not present herself as well groomed.
The sissy maid must present herself in attire that reflects the desires of mistress but she is responsible for the the cleanliness.
A slovenly look should not be tolerated and shos disrespect.
A sissy maid should find out the standards that the mistress requires in these matters and project manners that are becoming of her position.
At all times a sissy maid should present herself as a maid of flawless professionalism.
The Sissy Maid Must Be Pure And Innocent
The sissy maid must keep her thoughts on mistress and the duties expected of her.
The sissy maid is to be pure and untouched while keeping thoughts of a sexual matter to herself.
Sexual desire can be curtailed by the mistress by putting the sissy maid in a cage in order to stifle the desire.
Chastity can be a large part of the life of a sissy maid.
The sissy maid’s mind must be on her duties and she should not be clouded with lustful or inappropriate thoughts.
Chaste is the name of the game.
The Sissy Maid Must Be Feminine
A sissy maid must be effeminate and work on reducing their masculine traits.
A sissy maid must embrace her femininity and act accordingly.
That means dressing, speaking, and walking like a female, as well as wearing and carrying the appropriate attire.
Female interests are to be encouraged and the interests and worries of females now take a prominent role in thoughts.
A sissy maid will take on more traditional female roles like cooking and housework.
Male traits, appearance, and actions are to be minimized, reduced, or effectively expunged.
The Sissy Maid Must Be Unpresuming
A sissy maid lives under the care of mistress, to whom she owes gratitude for this situation.
The mistress has the purview to task, improve, and care for the sissy maid.
She should continually recognize this fact, and place the needs of her mistress above her own.
The sissy maid should be open to criticism and take the wishes of the mistress in the spirit of improving her ability to be of service.
A sissy maid should not presume to know more than mistress and defer to her better judjement.
The maid should not offer her own opinions on anything unless specifically asked.
The Sissy Maid Must Be Duty Focused
Lastly, a sissy maid should be focused on her primary tasks in order to please her mistress.
Constant she must be wondering how she can improve her ability to be of service.
A sissy maid should not be seen slacking or taking it easy.
Being lazy is disrespectful.
The allocation of breaks and alone time is under the control of mistress.
She should be attentive to the needs of mistress and try to foresee what a mistress might need.
This is the core of a sissy maid, the desire not to be of service, but to please with her actions.
Approval from mistress is the highest reward.
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