Why Men May Crave Your Authority In A Female Led Relationship

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Women can sometimes be a little perplexed by why a man would voluntarily submit to female authority in their personal life.

It seems antithetical, yet many men do just that and engage in letting their female partners take the reigns over many aspects of their private lives.

Whether you are a woman has been asked to take the lead, or you are trying to bring it up with your partner, the basic reason a man may submit to the idea can be the same.

So, why does a man submit to a female led relationship?

The most likely reason a man will submit to a female led relationship is the freedom from responsibility. The psychological effect of serving a trusted partner can be very therapeutic.

Misconceptions about the male in a female led relationship are plentiful, as are the supposed role of the mistress, and both partners have to consent to the rules.

a realtionship where the female takes a lead role does not have to humiliate, disempower, or otherwise belittle the male.

It can have those within it, of course, but the basic tenet is that the male must consent to the authority.

There are many reasons for this and sometimes it’s a combination.

The submissive male should be able to articulate why he wants to feel ‘underfoot’ in the relationship.

So let’s a explore some of the common reasons.

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Some Likely Reasons Why Men Enjoy A Female Led Relationship

What we tend to talk about with males that go into female led relationships is not the naturally submissive males, but men who are masuline in many different areas.

The idea is appealing to even these types of men who are keen to explore the idea.

Motivation is a ver personal choice, but several keep cropping up when you ask the people involved.


This, I believe is the biggest reason.

Despite their being very strong sexual elements to many femdom partnerships the fact remains that when the man isn’t in charge and that fact is actualized there can be a great deal of freedom from the expected pressure.

Men can often work in highly pressurized environments and the thought of coming home to a household where he is told what to do, and doesn’t have to think, only obey, gives more benefit to being the submissive partner.

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Stress Relieving

There is a lot of freedom of thought for a man in a femdom relationship.

Femdom relationships are often characterized by lack of conflict.

Normal relationships can give rise to arguments but in a femdom relationship the male is expected to listen and obey his female partner, thus few arguments should ensue.

There can be a distinct lack of loggerheads in a demale empowered relationship.

This in itself can lead to better relationships.

The male often has his opion sought on crucial matters but the decision lies with the female, and this understanding can in many instances will lead to better intimacy.


Compersion is the opposite of jealously.

The sterotype of a female led relationship is that the female may be doing it reluctantly to please her partner, but many women enjoy the dynamic and are happier as a result.

The compersion effect is when the submissive male gets joy from seeing his partner happy and contented.

a mistress confronts sub

It’s Damn Sexy

Few like to say it out loud, but many men will find the idea of a partner taking a lead in decisions and relationship control fun, kinky, and sexy.

Even without tradional kinks many men like the idea of a sexually dominant female who unapologetic about her desires.

There are many taboos in society and having a femdom relationship can add some spice. It can add spice to have a secret between the both of you where the female can control the male but unbeknownst to others.

The kink and humiliantion aspect can lead to a rewarding sexual dynamic for both males and females.

A femdom mistress can take control of kinks and utilize tha male for her own pleasure.

Improve The Relationship

Some men can make a mess of things, or aren;t good organizers.

Recognizing the female partners strengths and allowing them freedom and adding some fun to the relationship can help many couples.

Some men just prefer passive relationships and are more comfortable when the female takes the lead.

A femdom dynamic just formalizes the prefered options of both the male and the female.

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Men do not go willingly into a relationship without benefit.

Although there can ve many factors, a male wishing to enter a femdom relationship will do so with consent and appreciation for the rules.

Despite there being no apprent benefit to being submissive there are often personal and therapeutic benefits for letting the female take the lead.

How that plays out is for every couple to decide for themselves.

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