Train a Pleasure Slave – An Awesome Kink for a Female Led Relationship

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When it comes to a female-led relationship, there’s something special about infusing it with fun and excitement.

One way to do that is by training your submissive partner to fulfill your greatest indulgences.

Imagine having someone who can cook your favorite meal, give you a foot rub, or provide a relaxing massage, all to your exact specifications.

That’s where the idea of a pleasure slave comes in.

Not only can it add a whole new level of intimacy to your relationship, but it’s also just plain fun.

In this article, we’ll dive into the process of creating a pleasure slave and show you how to take your female-led relationship to the next level.

a female dominant in a bath of rose petals

What is a Pleasure Slave in an FLR

So what exactly is a pleasure slave?

Well, it’s basically a submissive partner who’s been trained to cater to their female dominant’s every indulgence and desire.

This could involve anything from cooking a special meal to giving a foot rub, or even learning new massage techniques to make their dominant partner happy.

The idea is that the submissive partner is there to serve their dominant’s needs and provide the utmost pleasure and satisfaction.

Now, I know some people might think that the idea of a pleasure slave is a bit extreme or demeaning.

But it’s important to remember that in a consensual relationship between two adults, the dynamic is all about trust and respect. For many couples, the pleasure slave relationship can be a fun and fulfilling way to explore power dynamics and build intimacy.

the femle dominant gets a head massage

In this type of relationship, the female dominant often takes on the role of trainer, guiding and instructing the submissive partner in ways that will bring her the most pleasure.

And the submissive partner is dedicated to acquiring the skills and knowledge necessary to fulfill their dominant’s desires, knowing that their efforts will be appreciated and rewarded.

Overall, the goal of a pleasure slave relationship is to create a dynamic that’s satisfying and enjoyable for both partners.

It’s a kink that can add an element of excitement and fun to a female-led relationship, while also strengthening the connection between two consenting adults.

a female dominant is orally pleasured

How To Train a Pleasure Slave

Now that you know what a pleasure slave is, let’s talk about how to train one.

If you’re the female dominant in a female-led relationship, then the first step is to make a list of all the things that make you happy and bring you pleasure.

This could be anything from your favorite foods to the types of massages you love.

Once you have your list, it’s time to start training your pleasure slave.

The idea is to teach them the skills or give “standing orders” necessary to make sure your desires are fulfilled whenever you want.

This could involve your submissive partner learning new skills or simply perfecting the ones they already have.

some chocolate being poured

When it comes to training your pleasure slave, it’s best to start with the basics and work your way up.

You could begin by having them prepare your favorite breakfast or give you a foot rub. As they become more comfortable with these tasks, you can introduce more complex skills, such as learning new massage techniques or perfecting a particular dish.

The idea is that the mistress trains the submissive in something she desires rather than just would ‘like’. This mantra can take many different forms in practical terms.

Her favorite meal can be perfected by her submissive until he knows how long the ingredients should be cooked for, what items should be fresh, where the items should be purchased, the exact quantities of ingriedients and the exact steps for preparation and serving.

The perfection can be replicated on demand.

Likewise, foot rubs aren’t just a matter of some oil and half-hearted attempts. he should study foot anatomy, and stress relief points, take a course, and keep practicing and learning so his mistress gets a perfect foot rub every time.

Be clear in your instructions and provide feedback on your submissive partner’s performance. And don’t forget to show your appreciation for their hard work and dedication.

In the end, a pleasure slave dynamic can be a fun and fulfilling way to explore power dynamics and build intimacy in a female-led relationship. So don’t be afraid to give it a try!

a submissive kisses the dominants back

How to Get Creative: Unique Ideas for Training Your Pleasure Slave

When it comes to pleasure slave training, there are plenty of creative ideas that can take things to the next level.

Here are some unique concepts to help you train your submissive partner to cater to your every desire:

  • Perfect bath: Start by showing your pleasure slave how to draw a bath that meets all of your preferences. Maybe you prefer a certain temperature or like to add specific bath salts or oils. You could even teach them how to prepare a refreshing drink to enjoy while you soak.
  • Foot rubs: Everyone loves a good foot massage, so why not train your pleasure slave to give you the perfect one? Work with them to identify the right pressure points and the best oils or lotions to use.
  • Body massages: If you want to up the relaxation factor, teach your submissive partner how to give you a full body massage. You could focus on perfecting techniques they already know, or even introduce new ones for them to learn.
  • Favorite meal: Is there a particular dish that you absolutely love? Teach your pleasure slave how to cook it to perfection. This could involve helping them to learn new techniques or simply perfecting your go-to recipe.
  • Head massages: Head massages are another fantastic way to relax and relieve stress. Show your pleasure slave the right pressure points and techniques to use to give you the perfect head massage.
  • Make chocolate: If you’re a chocolate lover, why not teach your pleasure slave how to make your favorite chocolate treat? This could involve experimenting with new recipes or perfecting the one you already love.
  • Facial massages: For some self-care and rejuvenation, teach your pleasure slave how to give you a facial massage. This might involve using specific products or techniques to help you feel pampered and refreshed.

Of course, pleasures for the female dominant don’t just come from gastrointestinal delights and relaxation methods, there are a few more obvious ones so let’s discuss them.

a female dominant is orally pleasured
  • Oral: Following a luxurious bath what could be better to further relax than having the submissive orally pleasure his dominant? The mistress gives extensive lessons on how the submissive can pleasure her orally and then spend many a moment maintaining his skills.
  • Foreplay: The mistress can give the submissive foreplay lessons, practically forcing him to kiss, caress, and lightly stroke her body, all the while training him in the language she likes to hear. The idea being to make sure the submissive can pleasure his dominant for extended periods of time.
  • Better lover: In a similar vane the mistress thinks about how she likes to be sexually pleased, and what’s important to her, and makes the submissive attain those goals. The submissive can be given a training regime, to build up skills, anything from health and fitness, to being able to use a penis extender. Whatever mistress feels she desires.
  • Roleplay specialist: Most women will have a few erotic fantasies that excite her. Well, now she has a submissive she can train to deliver those scenes. Whether it’s a policeman, doctor, or fireman, the submissive can get some appropriate clothing and come up with scenarios to fulfill her fantasies.

As an additional thought, it’s perfectly rational for the mistress to place the submissive in chastity so he can solely focus his efforts.

Remember that communication and mutual respect are key in any pleasure slave relationship.

Make sure to provide clear instructions and give feedback to your submissive partner.

And don’t forget to show your appreciation for their hard work and dedication. With some creativity and effort, you and your pleasure slave can have a fulfilling and exciting dynamic.

the femle dominant gets a foot rub


To sum it up, creating a pleasure slave can be a fun and enjoyable way to add some excitement and playfulness to a female-led relationship.

By focusing on the specific things that the female dominant enjoys, the submissive can learn new skills and keep up with certain standards to keep his mistress happy.

This kind of dynamic works best in relationships where the woman holds the authority, as it creates a healthy power dynamic that’s consensual and enjoyable for both parties.

I hope that the ideas and suggestions we’ve presented in this article have sparked some inspiration for you to explore this kink further.

If you have any other suggestions or ideas on this topic, please share them with us in the comments below.

I’d love to keep the conversation going and hear your thoughts.

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