Pegging isn’t something everyone want to try.
Some females don’t like the idea and many males feel the same.
However, many couples like the idea of at least trying it, and popular culture is changing.
The idea of a female led relationship is a growing phenomenon, and with it the idea that the woman takes a more dominant sexual role.
Submissive males like the idea a lot of the time of a sexually dominant female who oozes authority in the relationship.
The lack of responsibility for sex in a submissive males mind is part of the power dynamic.
Whatever the reason, both submissive men and their female dominants can both enjoy the practice of pegging.
Pegging is attracting a wide variety of people willing to give it a try.
So, this is my own analysis of the different styles of pegging. It’s not an industry standard or anything. Just my own thoughts.
Table of Contents
Learn And Tiptoe
This is the beginners and experimenters style of pegging.
The dominant female and the submissive are in an experimental stage of learning.
Not only in terms of learning about the practicalities, but their own personal preferences.
Pegging is likely to be an isolated session where nothing else is explored.
The dominant female will become familiar with the strapon and the submissive will be learning to accept the strapon.
Everything is done on couched terms. the dominant will stop and start and check everthing is OK.
Preferred positions are found, and the experimentation continues until both the dominant and submissive become comfortable.
Making A Scene
Making a scene is an introduction of kink play into the pegging.
Fantasies are starting to be introduced.
The submissive is now comfortable with strapon play and the dominant is practiced in the use of the strapon.
Insertion and withdrawl of the strapon is now fluent so the mistress can now ‘pump’ the submissive.
The experience of pegging is now moving on beyond the purely practical and preferential. The role of kink is now introduced into a pegging session.
The dominant might consensually be given more freedom to act more dominantly in play, and fetishes that work for both parties are actively sought.
Strapon is probably now an active part of the femdom relationship.
With kink play the pegging moves towards a more roleplay style of femdom.
Female power dynamic roleplay is much more common such as
- Headmistress and naughty schoolboy
- Female police officer and criminal
- Female prsion guard and prisoner
- Bitchy boss and employee
- Evil nurse and male patient
- Blackmailing ex wife
Costumes can be donned and the roleplay is very female power centric.
The submissive male is usually pegged as the result of a power trip within the roleplay.
Lovemaking
Aficionados of pegging can now start incorporating it into their lovemaking.
No longer is the male the sole instigator of penetration.
In fact, the femdom couple may decide that the male is not to penetrate the female but only the other way around is allowed.
Lovemaking pegging is where the dominant female takes a more pronounced lead in the sex.
It does not have to be rough, humiliating, or degrading but the female is in control.
She will control the tempo, positions, and direct the action. The submissive is their to obey.
In the end, the femdom ‘takes’ the submissive male.
Conquest
The conquest is the elevation of the female dominant and submissive takes a more ‘sex toy’ role.
The female dominant engages in a more lustul, forceful, and dimineering kind of pegging.
The female dominant is confident and the submissive male becomes ‘a piece of meat’.
Consensually the submissive will enjoy the abandonment and the mistress can lightly humiliate and treat the submissive like a ‘one night stand’.
The submissive is there for the pure enjoyment and pleasure of the mistress.
Conclusion
Pegging is an activity that’s on the rise.
It is gaining more and more acceptancle in the community outside of tradional BDSM activities.
Women can find it empowering and like the control wheras men can enjoy the abandonment of responsibility.
It can come in various different guises and noone should put anyone in a proverbial box in order to label people.
These were just my thoughts on the levels of pegging that you might encounter.
If you have any thoughts then drop a comment down below.
Trying to talk to your partner about the benefits of a female led relationship can be hard. Use this open letter to help or to prompt constructive dialogue.
Paul Victor Gearing
You are never too old to learn This topic or topics have been very interesting.—
I am a bit surprised like in my case, public humiliation is not mentioned Although my experience of this is very little, the actual ‘calling’ is quite an addictive drug for me
The adult sissy baby only gets an occasional mention, but from an humiliation aspect, the scope is very large. Especially when gender change, is also acted upon
Please note that most of this is pure fantasy, I have very little experience. I should also like to add that. almost all participants in ‘littles’ and AB fantasies ,have NOTHING to do with molesting children
Paula
Jessica
Sounds good.
Tbone
I would love to be my wives sub, she is older than myself, a very beautiful woman. Breast that any rivals any 26 year old. She’s 5’2″ , thinks she’s fat a 127lbs. She says her ass is flat, but that’s ok🍑, I don’t have a big fat long dick, so I love it. She is my beautiful wife and mistress.