Gentle Femdom Examples – Learn Through Videos

We can all learn from others. No one is blessed with skills that can’t be learned from watching and experiencing what others have to offer.

So it is with a gentle femdom relationship.

So for this article I want to offer a few videos that you can watch in the hope that you can learn something. Whether you are an aspiring domme, or a new submissive, watching others can help you get a feel for what you are letting yourself in for.

I didn’t have any real criteria, just that it shouldn’t be overly contrived, it must feel right and genuinely have a good example of what style of femdom might work.

The rough idea was to show examples of sexy dommes in ascenario that offers lessons for authority, compliance, kink and elegance.

What I offer is a list of videos that I personally think offer a good insight into an aspect of femdom that works well. I’ve excluded really severe BDSM and ones where the dynamic didn’t feel right.

These videos aren’t jut offered as a chance to watch adult entertainment, but are listed as genuine exaples of what I consider to be good femdom.

With each video I will offer a quick explanation as to what each instruction, scenario or roleplay might have to teach.

Below is a list of videos that you can choose to watch and see if there’s anything you can learn from.

Pussy Worship

Pussy worship is a sacred duty for a submissive. A domme, if she lets you near her sacred area is inviting you to worship her in a pleasurable way, and it’s an honor that you should treat with the highest reverence.

So let’s work through a few videos.

Pussy and foot worship

This is an extremely sexy video.

A mistress with quiet authority dominates her slave with effortless ease. She needs her pleasure and doesn’t hesitate to use her submissive for gratification.

He is there to service her, that is his role.

General

Facefuck Humiliation for Closet Cocksucker

This is a great video, as the mistress takes complete control. She is very commanding without being overly sadistic. The scene revolves around a kink punishment.

She has her submissive under complete control and never allows him to either waver or dictate where the session goes. She orders and he obeys.

I love the fact that it doesn’t seem fake, she is very much in character. There’s a delicious element of tease in it as well.

Becoming Her Cuck Boyfriend

Very sexy again.

While there is some play acting in this to the cameras it nevertheless is a great scene. Molly Jane takes command and there is good dialogue.

the mistress is definitely after her own pleasure, but there’s a tender and loving element to the pegging.

Molly Jane Likes to Fuck Her Boyfriend’s Ass and Cuckold Him at Home

Molly Jane again. She takes command of her submissive for her own pleasure.

first making her submissive pleasurably oral her, she then oves on to a strap on session. In both there are great vocals as well as command. She toys with him a lot.

This might be best described as a very feminine command. Authority without losing that vital female sexuality.

In the final scenes, she lustily takes him up against the wall and on the couch and appears to enjoy every minute of it. Great work, sexy lust at its finest.

Femdom Strapon

A great video. What I like about thtis one is the sense of ownnership from thie mistress. She really gets into the scene with commanding remarks that feel like the submissive is her property.

I like the vocals on this one. She commands him and really gets into taking him. The session is one of enjoyment for the mistress, and the submissive is their for her pleasure.

Sissy Slut Sister Part 2

Ashley Fires on fire again.

There’s a gentle teasing element to this one that many might find alluring. It’s isn’t aggressive, but rather expectant compliance.

The mistress remains active and vocal without breaking her stride.

Femdom

Hot Strapon Mistress Makes Him Her Bitch

Hot video. An effortless sexy performance by Tanya Tate.

Tanya uses confident verbal instruction to constantly get her submissive to perform. He isn’t allowed to deviate from what she wishes from him.

The mistress teases him as she takes him. In my opinion she lets him get away with topping from the bottom a bit, but maybe that’s just me.

She is very vocal though which is a hugle plus.

Mouthpussy – Femdom Strap-on Facefuck Humiliation & Slave Abuse

With this mistress, you see firm control. she is calm and authoritative yet very teasing. There are humiliations as well as she taunts her submissive.

With a sensual element to it, this mistress isn’t afraid to forcefully lust after her toy. He is owned by her completely with minor threats evident.

The mistress is also constantly vocal. This adds to the intensity of the scene with a fair amount of emasculating language.

He Has a Strong Lust for Strap On Fucking

While this feels a little forced at times, there’s no doubt that the mistress is taking charge in this one. she doesn’t break character, even if the submissive might give her pause to think so.

She talks to her submissive as if he were a toy and lusts after his submission. He isn’t allowed to talk her into things which is definitely a good trait for a mistress.

The mistress is continually vocal, and indulges in light humiliation.

Control Domination

Femdom Neighbor Dominates Male After Pinning and Riding Him

While there is a physical nature to this domination it’s also important to realize that this video shows a strong psycholical dominance.

A dominant female not only initiates physical desire but manhandles her submissive. The mistress while physically weaker is relying on her power over him. His objections are brushed aside to her desire.

The submissive offers token resistance that the mistress dismisses allowing her to take him as she wishes. Her passions are paramount and he is just a tool.

The submissive is overpowered by both the brawn and in the head. She owns him.

Pegging

Veruca James Gets A Hooker

This could quite easily be female dominance at its finest. A superb example of effortless female dominance.

right from the beginning the mistress treats her new aquisition as a toy. He is definitely property to be enjoyed. She remains vocal and teases him that he is going to ‘earn his money’.

The submissive as property trope begins.

The mistress is sensual, dominant, vocal, and authoratitive. She is also excercising her right to her own pleasure, the submssive being her fantasy.

Shower with Courtney

For the lovers of water, this is a great video for those in a female led relationship. The submissive is not only under her control but he is physically restrained. The submissive cannot use his superior strength, it’s been nullified.

The mistress is again vocal adding that vital intensity element. Both instructional and teasing she dominantes the scene, her submissive just being a sexual toy.

There is a strong sense that the mistress is sexually aggressive for her own pleasure.

Black Amazonian Kiana Pounding Her White Bitch Boy

You can file this one under unadultereated lustful pleasure. There’s an extreme element of physical lust in this video.

From the start, the mistress throws the submissive on the bed and physically manhandles him into position.

The submissive is a pure toy for her pleasure. There’s no light teasing, just thrown onto the bed and pegged. The mistress starts pegging him immediately and his resistance is overpowered. The mistress also doesn’t waste any time on making sure he is comfortable or liking the pegging, she just ‘takes’ him.

It’s a great scene for submissive’s into dissmisive mistresses as following th pegging she leaves, satisfied and unconcerned.

18 Year Old Pegs a Slave and Loves It

Quite possibly the best example of sweet and sensual pegging dominance there is.

The young mistress provides a good example for those who want a loving kind of female dominance. she is dominant with her sexuality yet their is a tender concern for her partner.

The mistress is more acting into a dominant kink play that works so well for many of those that participate in a genuine female led relationship.

Double Outdoor Hard Pegging

While I rank this in the category of great play acting, as there’s definitely an element of ‘unrealistic scenario’ to it, it is a delicious example of female dominance nontheless.

While the scenario setting is clearly unrealistic, it’s still a good exapmple of pegging, and uch can be learned from these two mistresses.

With this one there is a sense of unadulterated confidence from the mistresses. There’s a friendly banter between the two mistresses as they peg their captive males.

The submissives remain helpless as the mistresses have fun with their new sexual playthings. They verbally torment them to humiliate them during the scene.

Strap On Wife Morning

In this short clip I like to think of it as a good example of how a life partner might wish to behave in a female led relationship. The setting and clothing seem so normal for the mistress.

She is just going about her daily routine of dominace and her submissive is obeying her commands with his duty.

This mistress appears to be having her own private pleasures at the situation with plenty of camera glances. If tfeels like we have had access toa private video recording session.

The mistress humiliates and takes her submissive as it it’s just normal routine.

Ruthless Russian mistress hard pegging her slave

There’s quiet sense of dominance about this one. Best described as rough sensual kink play maybe.

It begins slowly, with the mistress building up a sense of teasing passion for her. She is firm and elegant with her moves and commands.

It’s as much about a submissive quietly accepting his fate rather than resistance or enjoyment for him. The mistress isn’t particularly vocal, knowing her submissive will comply.

The submissive is teased having been placed in a very submssive position and restrained. The mistress reigns supreme.

I love the finishing on this one, as if the mistress has just orgasmed.

MILF pegging man slave

I wanted to include this one even though it’s so obviously a ‘set scene’. A light bit of ‘acting’ in order to construct the narrative. It’s the epitome of fake really.

Still, once the pegging begins I believe the vocals are great. The mistress is very dismissive of her sub. He has disrespected her and she takes some pegging revenge.

The mistress torments the submissive when she is pegging him, unconcerned about his well being. It offers a good example of how a mistress can dominate her man psycholically. Treating him only as a piece of meat for her pleasure and fun.

Slave Is Pegged And Humiliated By His Mistress

Normally a good vocal mistress is an excellent thing. This mistress is more silent, but I think signifies what happens when there is a comfortable relationship backing the dominance.

A proper female led relationship if you will.

I’ve included this one as it shows a good example of a mistress using her slave for her own fun, and some light humiliation thrown in for good measure.

Despite the mistress being quite petite, she is forceful. That strapon is forcibly inserted into the submissive’s mouth. Of particular note, though is the way the mistress acts like her strapon is real. She sounds like her physical pleasure is real through it.

I get horny when fucking his big strapon

Similar to the ones above, you can file this scene under a mistress with an already compliant submissive. The mistress knows she can do as she wants with him. Her submissive is a toy for her pleasure.

I present this scene because the mistress shows obvious signs of physical pleasure as she pegs her submissive. It looks like she is getting excited by the pegging, and it shows vocally.

There’s a crescendo of excitement that builds up from the mistress that’s really well done here.

Some Bad Examples and Why

He Called Dominatrix to Fuck his Ass in a Hotel.Mary Cherry

OK, so we’ve moved onto to ‘bad examples’. That’s not so say the scene isn’t interesting, it’s just that you might learn how to be a better mistress from watching a different video.

So, what’s wrong with this one.

In three words. No power discrepancy.